I am a 37 year old mother of 5 trying to do my divorce on my own because of financial reasons.I have filed and he has been served.I was notified that me and my spouse have to attend a pre mediation class before they will let us go to mediation.My spouse is fighting everything and refuses to go to the class.He is not giving me any child support. and refuses to go to work.What can I do I am losing my mind?