Yesterday my life took a serious change. I recieved a letter in the mail stating that I am the father of a four year old boy. I had a one time fling five years ago when I was 18 just before I left town to go to college. Since then I have finished school and started my career as a freelance artist. The child's mother just recently parted with her long-time boyfriend who has been "Dad" to the kid up until now, and now I get the letter from the court house demanding child support. Also to add to this, we are in two different states. I do not want any custody or to be a part of the child's life, I would just like to get on with my own life. I guess my real question is, am I required to pay back child support for when I did not know I had a child and he had a father figure in the house? Thanks in advance for your help and any advice is appreciated.