I found out that my wife wants to leave me and marry another man. I have chats that show this. I also have chats and an email that shows he is willing to pay for it. He is seperated from his wife in the state of Tennessee. We have 5 kids ranging in age from 17 to 6. The 17 year old and 16 year old don't know of this. The three little ones do. Their ages are 12, 10, and 6. What rights do I have. The kids feel resentment towards the man that is willing to pay for the divorce. What are my options for getting custody?