You may have to do some leg work to get your Birth certificate etc on your own-- people lose things like that all the time contact the county you were born in and get a birth cert and contact the Social Security office and get a new SS card. You can get your documents yourself you dont need your parents for this. You should have an Id ( drivers license or Identification card) already-- if you have no identification @ all you had better haul them into court to get @ least your ID -- no one but you should have your ID