I owned my house before marriage with a 90,000.00 mortgage. The property was appraised at 160,000.00 After marriage and several refinances to pay off marital debts credit cards , car loans etc. We now have a $318,000. mortgage. The house is appraised at 260,000. If I stay in the house would my spouse be responsible for some of those debts in refinancing. Believe it or not we actually have refinanced for 228,000. over the years.