confused34465
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i AM A SINGLE MOTHER OF TWO KIDS 4 AND 5 I HAVENT BEEN WITH THE FATHER SINCE IVE HAD THEM .. HE IS COURT ORDERED TO PAY CHILD SUPPORT .. HE HAS TAKEN THE KIDS A FEW TIMES TO HIS FAMILIES HOUSE AND WHEN MY KIDS COME HOME THEY TELL ME ABOUT SOMEONE MISS TREATING THEM .USUALLY ONE OF HIS GIRLFRIENDS.. I WANT NOTHING MORE THAN MY KIDS TOO HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH THEIR DAD BUT I WILL NOT TOLERATE PPL MISS TREATING MY KIDS, HE CALLS MY HOUSE AND CURSES ME OUT LATE AT NITE HE SHOWS UP AND WANTS TO VISIT WITH THE KIDS ..WHAT BOTHERS ME THE MOST IS HE TALKS BAD ABOUT ME TOO MY KIDS ... I WANT TOO KNOW AM I GETTING MYSELF IN TROUBLE BY NOT LETTING HIM TAKE THE KIDS WHEN HE WANTS TOO ?? HE SAYS ITS BECAUSE HE HASNT PAID SUPPORT BUT THATS NOT IT . IVE TAKEN THEM TOO HIM AND HAVENT ASKED FOR ANYTHING .. HES BEEN IN AND OUT OF JAIL DOESNT HAVE A PLACE OF HIS OWN AND I JUST DONT FEEL MY KIDS ARE SAFE WITH HIM .. HE SAID HES GONNA HAVE TOO GET NASTY IF I WONT LET HIM TAKE THE KIDS.. BUT IM SCARED HE WONT RETURN THEM OR SOMEONE WILL MISSTREAT THEM ...........PLS HELP....