Filed for legal separation in CA last August-
within a week husband had cut off finances/bank accounts/health insurance etc (we have a 3 r old)
Husband looks and appears like a Silicon Executive-
Before I left him found out that he had taken out 38k in cash advances on cc's, another 30k charged- total of 67k
Had W-2 of 182k made that same yr
"said" he sold his 115k boat while I was with him. After I left found out still registered to him - he produced bill of sale for 1.00 for the courts. We have note from Coastguard saying the boat has not been registered since the yr after he sold it.
Won't produce his "signed" tax's- gives us "drafts" as he calls them but say those will be what he files. He has not filed tax's since 2005. We were married in Dec 2004.
Had a beautiful home- I left it and he hasn't paid mortgage since July- going on 10 months. Put it up for short sale in July; 8 buyers but won't produce tax's for Realtors to let deal go through.
Found out from mortgage co. today that husband has instructed them to not speak with me- they told me I am on the deed but not the on the note so they will not speak with me. We believe he is doing the Obama plan re-mod and has a job he is hiding.
Is there a way for him to get busted for all of this and for me to find out someway where he is working? (he gets 100.00 hr when he works in the computer industry).
My concern is that at the end of the day I will be held responsible for his credit card debts eve though I had NO knowledge of what he was doing and is listed on my initial 4 pages of why I fled our home.
(He now filed to move this into a divorce we believe for financial reasons and doesn't need me to sign on the re-fi/re-mod?)
within a week husband had cut off finances/bank accounts/health insurance etc (we have a 3 r old)
Husband looks and appears like a Silicon Executive-
Before I left him found out that he had taken out 38k in cash advances on cc's, another 30k charged- total of 67k
Had W-2 of 182k made that same yr
"said" he sold his 115k boat while I was with him. After I left found out still registered to him - he produced bill of sale for 1.00 for the courts. We have note from Coastguard saying the boat has not been registered since the yr after he sold it.
Won't produce his "signed" tax's- gives us "drafts" as he calls them but say those will be what he files. He has not filed tax's since 2005. We were married in Dec 2004.
Had a beautiful home- I left it and he hasn't paid mortgage since July- going on 10 months. Put it up for short sale in July; 8 buyers but won't produce tax's for Realtors to let deal go through.
Found out from mortgage co. today that husband has instructed them to not speak with me- they told me I am on the deed but not the on the note so they will not speak with me. We believe he is doing the Obama plan re-mod and has a job he is hiding.
Is there a way for him to get busted for all of this and for me to find out someway where he is working? (he gets 100.00 hr when he works in the computer industry).
My concern is that at the end of the day I will be held responsible for his credit card debts eve though I had NO knowledge of what he was doing and is listed on my initial 4 pages of why I fled our home.
(He now filed to move this into a divorce we believe for financial reasons and doesn't need me to sign on the re-fi/re-mod?)