Hi, I am a single 22 year old mom. I am receiving state assistance with insurance for myself and son. My son is 5 months old and is a handicapped child who will need extensive work. I am only able to work 15 hours per week due to having to bring my son to physical therapy and shortage of avaliable work due to economy as well. I recieved a letter from the state saying that i am going to be served to appear in court to determine paternity of my son. Now my concern is I dont know who the father is. During the time of my sons conception I was away for a holiday week vacation with my friend. We went around partying and going to clubs, frat parties, etc in NYC. I had a hook up or two with guys I dont even know who they were, we were all a little too drunk, and did things that i shouldnt have done. Never did i think i would go home and 2 months later find out I was pregnant form my little adventure in NYC. Now if I have no idea of who the guy was, no name no nothing, how can the court order to find out paternity and medical coverage from the father, if i don't know who it is? ANd will they believe me, because trust me If i knew i would be lookign for child support, medical coverage, and for him to be partially responcible, but with no name, no idea where he was from, where he lives and only a vague idea of what he could of looked liked, and even that im not sure on, because i want to say there were 2 guys i was with over that week, but not positive. Can they drop my insurance benefits because of that? or how could they go about finding out who the father is?