melaniein916
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I am a mom of 3 girls, ages 17,16,&12. Been married 18+years. I had an affair, which I confessed to because of guilty feelings.That was on June 5, 2010. Afew days later I went to Pa., to visit my Dad, who lives overseas, but was home for a visit. I was gone for 2 weeks. During this time, I was talking to my husband and kids, who were pretty mad at my betrayal.
During the "private" calls with my husband I heard one of our daughters respond to something I said and thats when I realized he had me on speaker phone so that they could hear both ends of the conversation.
This was just the beginning of my experiences with PARENTAL ALIENATION.When I came back to California, I did not feel ok with going home, so I stayed with a friend for 2 days and my co-cheater for two days. I went home on the fourth day, to find my sister in law and some skanky friend of hers saying I wasn't allowed in my own house, because I had abandoned my family. My husband was at a doctors appointment, so these were his orders. I know my rights so I called the cops, who of course told them to let me get a few things, but I had to come back when my STBX was home.
He has called this whole event --domestic abuse---. It is stated in the restraining order he got against me a few days later. One more thing, he had my middle daughter fill out the description of abuse part of the request for protection. They don't want anything to do with me since then.
I have other reasons for it is parental alienation, but I am powerless due to therestraining order.
There is a court date on Monday, 9/20/10 to address the issue of whether or not to extend it or drop it. What can I do to get this gone?
During the "private" calls with my husband I heard one of our daughters respond to something I said and thats when I realized he had me on speaker phone so that they could hear both ends of the conversation.
This was just the beginning of my experiences with PARENTAL ALIENATION.When I came back to California, I did not feel ok with going home, so I stayed with a friend for 2 days and my co-cheater for two days. I went home on the fourth day, to find my sister in law and some skanky friend of hers saying I wasn't allowed in my own house, because I had abandoned my family. My husband was at a doctors appointment, so these were his orders. I know my rights so I called the cops, who of course told them to let me get a few things, but I had to come back when my STBX was home.
He has called this whole event --domestic abuse---. It is stated in the restraining order he got against me a few days later. One more thing, he had my middle daughter fill out the description of abuse part of the request for protection. They don't want anything to do with me since then.
I have other reasons for it is parental alienation, but I am powerless due to therestraining order.
There is a court date on Monday, 9/20/10 to address the issue of whether or not to extend it or drop it. What can I do to get this gone?