I share joint custody with my ex. We've been divorced for two years. I'm very happily remarried to a wonderful man. Ex and I share joint custody of our three children ages 9,7, and 5. Ex just recently found out that I'm pregnant with new husbands baby. The kids came home from visitation very upset. 7 year old told me that her dad called me a F. B. She whispered it to me. Ex constantly puts the oldest (boy) in a "take my side" position. Our son was born blind so he is eager to please dad in any way he can. Hopwever, recently I noticed that when he comes home from his Dad's house he has red marks on his hand were he sucks his wrist. Son says he does it when 7 year old (girl) argues with their dad. I'm worried that my ex will permanently damage his relationship with the kids and or their future relationships with other people if he continues. I can't afford a lawyer. How can I go about helping our kids? ANY help would be appreciated!