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Hello. I have been divorced since 2006, however due to an illness, I had to have the visitation done by DHR. The order was done in 2008. According to the order, it states that the father should let me know 48 hours in advance about where to meet and time. Also he is not to leave the state with our child. He has never informed me 48 hours in advance. Also the order says a minimum of 2 hours per week. Now, all of a sudden he's trying to make it seem that I wouldn't let him see our child. I was the one bringing there and back(which I should have never had to do, plus he wanted me to come and get the child support check. To make matters worse, he took one of the payments to the school and tried to give it to our child in front of the class. When I show up for the visits, he will sometimes spend 5 minutes with our child. Now I call today(emphasis on I), because he didn't call yesterday and he says he has to work. I said can you please send me an email to that effect. I am very tired and I have an illness. This is stressing our child and me out. I don't want to petition the court, but I would really like to transfer to another state. I have told him before of my wishes and can write a letter to him when I am ready. What can I do? he hasn't cooperated with me. I'm very tired. By the way, he told me where I was on a particular day but he was across town. I asked him how did he know that and he said don't worry about that. So does that mean he's watching me. Plus he's recording our conversations now. Please tell me what to do. Our child is caught in the middle of all of this. Thank you for your time.
 
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All you are required to do is obey the order.
 
I want to move to Georgia because of the Hope program. I want a better job as well. With regards to the order, I have. However it's not my responsibility to transport our child to and from the visits. The order says that he is responsible for letting me know 48 hours in advance what his wishes are. This has never happened. I believe, and I try to give people the benefit of the doubt, that he is going to say that I won't let him see his child and has never gone by the order. I always have. So now to tell me today, which we agreed on Saturdays, at 2oclock p.m. that you now have to work. Why wasn't I notified yesterday, or better yet this morning. I would never try to keep our child from seeing him. I never have. It isn't my responsibility to notify. I have stressed this to him numerous times. I'm also not trying to record conversations to later use in court. I am not trying to set anyone up. I want what's best for our child.
 
If you relocate, are you willing to pay for all transportation to and from Dad's, and to lose most of summer and every other holiday every year?
 
Am I responsible for that or are we both.. I really don't know, I just want a better life for our child. I am trying to weigh the pros and cons about it. It may not work out over there. I really love the Hope program though and heard so many good things about it. I want my child happy, that's it.
 
If you want what is best for your child, please explain why dad is not permitted to establish a normal relationship with the child and is only entitled to 2 hours supervised. How old is the child?
 
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Am I responsible for that or are we both.. I really don't know, I just want a better life for our child. I am trying to weigh the pros and cons about it. It may not work out over there. I really love the Hope program though and heard so many good things about it. I want my child happy, that's it.
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If you're allowed to relocate, you'll likely be responsible for ALL transportation costs.

I'm also not sure you actually understand what the HOPE program is.
 
Proserpina said:
If you're allowed to relocate, you'll likely be responsible for ALL transportation costs.

I'm also not sure you actually understand what the HOPE program is.
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The HOPE Program is struggling to fund students.

It may soon be defunct.

Great point, as usual Pro.
 
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