I have been separated for over seven years and my ex and I have decided it is time to get the divorce, we just havent bothered with it. In both our minds, we are divorced. I have contacted lawyers and they range from $1100 to $1600. A do it yourself kit is available. Are these ok to use? Everything has been set out in our separation agreement which was done legally seven years ago? Any advice, has anyone used these kits?