She has no where to go till thr shelter helps her.Is it illegal to kick out a disable family member not on the lease?
No, its not illegal to EVICT a squatter.
Yes, it isn't illegal to kick a squatter out of your home.
The police will tell the woman if she were to call, its a civil matter, bets left for the courts.
No one would ever have to kick a deadbeat, mooch, ne'er do well, lay about squatter out of their home, IF they simply said to the brood or crew when asked, what was told to Joseph and Mary, "Sorry, I have no room to take you in."
Here's a thought, OP, you've got a big heart.
Why don't YOU take the "family" into your home, or give them a couple grand to pay for a hotel for a few weeks?????