Justintime
New Member
My daughter is 4yrs, her mother and I were not married. My ex-lost custody and has supervised visits with her other almost 2yo old child (not mine), No court agreement for support or for custody/visitation for our child. I have my daughter when it is convenient for my ex, I ask for a regular schedule, 50-50 for the benefit of my daughter, she is confused and acting out only at her mothers, and her mother drops her off when she can't control her, she has NO outbursts at my home. Her mother has psychiatric problems, I have picked my daughter up at a bar, she has NO consistancy with dropping her off, picking her up, canceling 15 minutes before, not picking her up when she said, she doesn't want to commit to a schedule for our daughter, she recently quit her job, moved in with her mother, and keeps asking me for money. I did pay her child support consistantly for daycare expenses, etc, (I have receipts). I have her approximately 40% She lost the daycare because she didn't pay for 5 mths. She is unstable, unfit, has psychiatric & alcohol problems. What do I do? How do I find out the circumstances for her losing her other child? prove her unfit? Can I get custody? I don't want her mother to be out of her life, but I am worried about the welfare of my daughter & would like something in writing. what do you recommend?