- Jurisdiction
- Wisconsin
Hey all! First time posting, be gentle!
I am separated from my ex. She has custody of my son because we were not married. I do not think she would ever dispute paternity since she always said I was a great dad.
I was told by her today that if I do not visit my son for a full year, without paying child support (we just separated recently, no filings on either side yet) or visit him regularly, that she can legally have her new boyfriend adopt my son without the need for my consent, and in case of her passing, he would get custody of my son.
Is this true?
I now moved back home far away (thousands of kilometers) and I am putting every cents I have to hire an attorney to file for custody because my ex has been doing horrible things to her other kids (mental and physical), had drug addictions, still takes prescription meds, lost custody of one of her sons for drug-related problems, and sooo much more.
I visited my son once already when she was on the east coast, but now she moved to Wisconsin and the trip back and forth would not cost me a couple hundreds this time, but close to a thousand, maybe a little more depending how many nights I spend (in hotels). It might sound like a small price to pay to visit my son, but its money I cannot use for the attorney, and its killing me to have to make such a choice.
She moves states every 3-4 months for her work, so she has no stable home, so while she's in Wisconsin, I'm trying to get all the information I can.
Thanks.
I am separated from my ex. She has custody of my son because we were not married. I do not think she would ever dispute paternity since she always said I was a great dad.
I was told by her today that if I do not visit my son for a full year, without paying child support (we just separated recently, no filings on either side yet) or visit him regularly, that she can legally have her new boyfriend adopt my son without the need for my consent, and in case of her passing, he would get custody of my son.
Is this true?
I now moved back home far away (thousands of kilometers) and I am putting every cents I have to hire an attorney to file for custody because my ex has been doing horrible things to her other kids (mental and physical), had drug addictions, still takes prescription meds, lost custody of one of her sons for drug-related problems, and sooo much more.
I visited my son once already when she was on the east coast, but now she moved to Wisconsin and the trip back and forth would not cost me a couple hundreds this time, but close to a thousand, maybe a little more depending how many nights I spend (in hotels). It might sound like a small price to pay to visit my son, but its money I cannot use for the attorney, and its killing me to have to make such a choice.
She moves states every 3-4 months for her work, so she has no stable home, so while she's in Wisconsin, I'm trying to get all the information I can.
Thanks.