Ok heres the background. Dad and mom have joint custody with mom having physical. Child and Mom live with Mom's Mother. Mom doesn't have to pay any expenses other than cell phone bill and gas for work. Mom doesn't have to pay for food she gets food stamps, Doesn't pay rent, or heating. Literally no expenses. Also the Moms mother buys a good deal of the childs clothing. The Moms Mother makes well over 50k a year. So my question is....When Dad is paying the child support, right....where is it going? Well, maybe for gas and to pay her phone bills but Mom has a full time job for that. Can't be paying child care expenses because child doesn't go to day care. The child is majority of the time with Dad and when child is at Moms she is watched by the boyfriend while mom works or by the mother. Mom reffers to the child support as her money and Dad happens to know that the child support is not going to the child. Infact it gets taken out at an ATM and supplies her nights out to the bar and supports her drug habbits. Is there anything that a court can order to make the Child support be forced to be used for the child? I didn't think there was much dad could do. Also whats going on is hard to prove being as she pulls it out of an atm. Anyone have any ideas? This may be impossble to do but I guess we wont know till we ask right.