- Jurisdiction
- California
Case background:
6yo child, order as of Feb 2021
Current custody based on 3111 evaluation; 4 nights with me, 3 nights with mother.
All communication via talking parents.
History and documentation of alienation, manipulation, discussions with child regarding visitation and court proceedings (mothers end). Past restraining order on mom due to physical violence 2017. Not allowing two minimum calls per week, only one, stating "I can wait to talk with child on my time".
Untruthful about work days/hours (self employed), fraudulent and inconsistent filings with court regarding financial during term of divorce case.
Mother filed for modification in Feb 2022 because "she wants to spend more time with child and can due to work schedule" no change in circumstances. Has attorney. Court date 8/31
Issue at hand:
Approx two weeks ago I provided a 30 day notice (per order) that I'd be taking our child for 2 week vacation prior to school starting. Mother responded two hours later stating she is also providing 30 day notice for same dates. Went back and forth, Mother stated that she then suggests she take child for her two week vacation within two weeks. Multiple times I advised it would be against order to do so. Two days prior doing so, Mother provided notice she IS taking child on two week vacation out of state, once again advised against defering to order. Today learned she went through with it when I went to pick up child at mom's house. After several attempts to contacting her, two hours later responded stating she is on said two week vacation. Added that I can contact her lawyer if I had a problem with it. Called police to file a report.
Note: Last year I provided a 28 day notice for the two week vacation which Mother declined stating its not a full 30 day notice per court order. Two weeks later I stated I'd like to still take vacation minus two days, Mother declined stating its a new request providing only two week notice which does not comply with order. Mother also stated that she would not allow the vacation because it would not allow her to take one with child either. Child did not have two week vacation with neither parent.
6yo child, order as of Feb 2021
Current custody based on 3111 evaluation; 4 nights with me, 3 nights with mother.
All communication via talking parents.
History and documentation of alienation, manipulation, discussions with child regarding visitation and court proceedings (mothers end). Past restraining order on mom due to physical violence 2017. Not allowing two minimum calls per week, only one, stating "I can wait to talk with child on my time".
Untruthful about work days/hours (self employed), fraudulent and inconsistent filings with court regarding financial during term of divorce case.
Mother filed for modification in Feb 2022 because "she wants to spend more time with child and can due to work schedule" no change in circumstances. Has attorney. Court date 8/31
Issue at hand:
Approx two weeks ago I provided a 30 day notice (per order) that I'd be taking our child for 2 week vacation prior to school starting. Mother responded two hours later stating she is also providing 30 day notice for same dates. Went back and forth, Mother stated that she then suggests she take child for her two week vacation within two weeks. Multiple times I advised it would be against order to do so. Two days prior doing so, Mother provided notice she IS taking child on two week vacation out of state, once again advised against defering to order. Today learned she went through with it when I went to pick up child at mom's house. After several attempts to contacting her, two hours later responded stating she is on said two week vacation. Added that I can contact her lawyer if I had a problem with it. Called police to file a report.
Note: Last year I provided a 28 day notice for the two week vacation which Mother declined stating its not a full 30 day notice per court order. Two weeks later I stated I'd like to still take vacation minus two days, Mother declined stating its a new request providing only two week notice which does not comply with order. Mother also stated that she would not allow the vacation because it would not allow her to take one with child either. Child did not have two week vacation with neither parent.
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