Benn Wilcox Left our family in April of 1999. In July of 2000 Benn Wilcox moved to Hawaii with his new girlfriend and her daughter.
Since the move he has only talked to his two children 3 times. I have to take Gabe and Taryn to their Grandparents house, then they call Benn and if Benn is home the children talk. Gabriel is to be 14 on 2/3 and Taryn just turned 10 in October. They have lost interest in their "dad".
On December 6, 2000 I filed for Re-Establishment of child support. The case worker let our case sit on the shelf for months and months. On December 10 of 2001 our case was finaly signed by a judge and is offically an order. Here's what it looks like.
12/6/00 petition for child support
6/11/01 reccomendation presented
7/21/01 Objection filed
10/19/01 Objections heard in court before a judge
12/10/01 Child Support Order signed and filed with the court
Now Benn wilcox owes over $17000.00 plus; $5000.00 plus is debt to the state from 10 years ago. $11000.00 plus is owed to the support of Gabe and Taryn. He has not sent one penny for the support of the children. He was a caring father for 12 years, but an awful husband. If he only cared about what was happening. I do not want him to go to jail, but that is what the FOC is going to pursue. What choice do they have. Benn crossed state lines, is in arears of more than $5000.00 and has refused to pay for more than a year.
The FOC employee that took so long to follow through with her duties is still envolved with this case, she has put such a damper on how FOC proceedings are supposed to flow.
Just thought I would share a little of my Child Support story.
Since the move he has only talked to his two children 3 times. I have to take Gabe and Taryn to their Grandparents house, then they call Benn and if Benn is home the children talk. Gabriel is to be 14 on 2/3 and Taryn just turned 10 in October. They have lost interest in their "dad".
On December 6, 2000 I filed for Re-Establishment of child support. The case worker let our case sit on the shelf for months and months. On December 10 of 2001 our case was finaly signed by a judge and is offically an order. Here's what it looks like.
12/6/00 petition for child support
6/11/01 reccomendation presented
7/21/01 Objection filed
10/19/01 Objections heard in court before a judge
12/10/01 Child Support Order signed and filed with the court
Now Benn wilcox owes over $17000.00 plus; $5000.00 plus is debt to the state from 10 years ago. $11000.00 plus is owed to the support of Gabe and Taryn. He has not sent one penny for the support of the children. He was a caring father for 12 years, but an awful husband. If he only cared about what was happening. I do not want him to go to jail, but that is what the FOC is going to pursue. What choice do they have. Benn crossed state lines, is in arears of more than $5000.00 and has refused to pay for more than a year.
The FOC employee that took so long to follow through with her duties is still envolved with this case, she has put such a damper on how FOC proceedings are supposed to flow.
Just thought I would share a little of my Child Support story.