I have an open case with DCSE in Va. My non custodial parent is ordered to pay a set amount each month. DCSE has not been withholding his wages. My case manager told me. They decided it would be best or better if he just pays on his own. I have asked for help from DCSE. I also filed my own show cause on him. The judge did not find him guilty, because by the time we got a court date he was current. He owes 48,000.00 in arrears. The judge did advice DCSE to income withhold. They will not follow through. My case manager told me I get more money if he pays on his own. I told her that's not her decision to make. It doesn't matter if I only get $40 out of his 2 checks. At least I know when the money is coming. He's responsible by court order to pay the set amount. He will have to pay the difference. I can not depend on him to pay me on time. I can not pay my bills this way. I just want something to make him accountable. Pay me at the first or a set date of the month. No one will help me make this man accountable. I was told the only thing I can do is file a show cause again. Can he be served at his job? I'm not sure what address he lives at. We do not have any contact. If there is any advice you could give, I would be grateful. Also he never filed taxes and has no bank acct. thank you