My question is in regards to changing a finalized divorce decree and what are each person's rights?
The divorce decree states that custody, care and control of the dog willl be shared equally between my boyfriend and his ex-wife. All expenses will be shared 50:50.
To execute against the decree the original plan was to do three days on, three days off. The dog stayed with us for two days and in those two days the dog, a 130 pound Akita, attack and bite my dog, a 12 pound Shitzu. For the safety of both dogs it was determined that the dog could not be together. So his ex-wife now has the dog at her house 100% of the time. My boyfriend walks the dog once a day, three times a week. He still shares all expenses.
This new arrangement is no longer working because his ex-wife has majority control of the dog with it being in her custody and at her home. My boyfriend must ask her to visit the dog on his "off" days, even though he has the right to see the dog 50% of the time, and she says yes or no. He recently asked to take care of the dog over x-mas while she was out of town and she said no, the dog was going to the kennel. He recently asked to switch his Saturday walking day to Sunday and she said no. We feel we have zero say in things and he is only used as a dog walker for her. In addition, he would like to move on from his relationship with her because the sole basis for their 8 year marriage was the dog. The current arrangement makes him feel like he is still in the relationship with her and she continues to control him like in their marriage.
If he wants to change the decree so that she has full care, custody and control of the dog can he do this? If yes, does she have a legal right to make him pay her off because the decree says all expenses are shared, 50:50? She also said that she wants him to pay for a dog walker three days a week, basically to backfill his role. Can she legally force us to pay her for a dog walker? The dog is 9.5 years old and expected life is 12 years. His ex-wife currently make approximately $79k so she can afford the dog. Is this factored into the decision?
The divorce decree states that custody, care and control of the dog willl be shared equally between my boyfriend and his ex-wife. All expenses will be shared 50:50.
To execute against the decree the original plan was to do three days on, three days off. The dog stayed with us for two days and in those two days the dog, a 130 pound Akita, attack and bite my dog, a 12 pound Shitzu. For the safety of both dogs it was determined that the dog could not be together. So his ex-wife now has the dog at her house 100% of the time. My boyfriend walks the dog once a day, three times a week. He still shares all expenses.
This new arrangement is no longer working because his ex-wife has majority control of the dog with it being in her custody and at her home. My boyfriend must ask her to visit the dog on his "off" days, even though he has the right to see the dog 50% of the time, and she says yes or no. He recently asked to take care of the dog over x-mas while she was out of town and she said no, the dog was going to the kennel. He recently asked to switch his Saturday walking day to Sunday and she said no. We feel we have zero say in things and he is only used as a dog walker for her. In addition, he would like to move on from his relationship with her because the sole basis for their 8 year marriage was the dog. The current arrangement makes him feel like he is still in the relationship with her and she continues to control him like in their marriage.
If he wants to change the decree so that she has full care, custody and control of the dog can he do this? If yes, does she have a legal right to make him pay her off because the decree says all expenses are shared, 50:50? She also said that she wants him to pay for a dog walker three days a week, basically to backfill his role. Can she legally force us to pay her for a dog walker? The dog is 9.5 years old and expected life is 12 years. His ex-wife currently make approximately $79k so she can afford the dog. Is this factored into the decision?