n0tpennysboat
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My fiance has a son from a previous relationship. His son's mother is currently keeping us from seeing him and has been for close to 9 months. She wants us to pay child support to her but refuses to provide us with a receipt. Daddy's name is not on the birth certificate and we have offered to pay for DNA tests to get his name on it but she also refuses to bring his son to the testing facility. If we were to go to the local child support office and request that we begin paying the state for child support would they require her to bring his son in for DNA testing? Also, can we do this without a court order? So far no one has taken anyone to court as we cannot afford it. We plan to in the future but thought it would be beneficial to go ahead and be paying child support to her. Will this help?