I moved for my job and gave my children the option to move with me or to stay with there father do to not wanting to change schools and lose there friends they stayed with there dad ..... I cover them on my insurance I pay 400 a month in child support and he won't help buy anything they need ... I have to pay have of any doctors visits and I do my part I'm not complaining about paying support I love my kids and want to take care of them ... but my question is there any thing I can do to make him help financialy with them ... I bought all there school supplies and there school clothes he agreed to pay book fees and buy there jeans when the weather changed it is now november and he has not bought tuem any thing he is not working and when he does its under the table he has been getting him self new clothes and tattoos how his gf gets food stamps and they live in her grandmas house I mention this cause I know child support goes for more than just spending on the kids but providing for them but that is the problem he is not providing is there anything I can do .... sorry for repeating my self just very frustrated I do all I can for them and he just tells them to ask me for anything they need and won't help provide for them there grades are falling and he waited 6 months to get our daughter glasses after hers broke I tried to take it upon my self to donit but he kept saying they live with him he will take care of it they are left alone for hours ages 12-14 with a child molester next door any advice would be helpful my kids are my everything and if I make them move in with me they will hate me cause they don't wanna switch schools