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opie104
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- Jurisdiction
- Oklahoma
My boyfriend is a geophysicist, working for an oil company. He makes very good money, and pays his ex, who lives out of state in Oklahoma, a great amount of money in child support and alimony each month. There is talk of this office branch closing. My question is this: Can he take a lesser-paying job, as a consultant, so he can stay here, or would he be ordered by the judge to take an out-of-state transfer, where he would make the same amount of money he's currently making? We are not married yet, but are talking seriously of it. I have kids and do not wish to transfer with him. Can he stay here and take a lesser paying job? If we marry would it increase his chances that he would be allowed to stay in this state?
Also, not sure it matters but his ex has a master's in psychology and has chosen not to work or further her education for the 3 years they have been apart. There has been no attempt for her to be self sufficient.
Also, not sure it matters but his ex has a master's in psychology and has chosen not to work or further her education for the 3 years they have been apart. There has been no attempt for her to be self sufficient.