jmottomeyer
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My son, age 12 and my daughter, age 10 would like to know when they are old enough to decide whether or not they want to visit their dad. My husband and I are still in the divorce process. We live in St. Louis County in Missouri. How old do the children need to be. Their father is an alcoholic. The Division of Family Services knows this because they evaluated him. Yet the judge allows unsupervised visitation. My husband live in a one bedroom apartment. The children have no beds, and my husband does not have a couch or chair for the children to seep in. Many times he doesn't even inflate the air mattresses for the children. My children spend every other weekend at their father's apartment. My son says it's like being grounded, only he didn't do anything wrong. What can I do about this situation? I have a full order of protection for myself....but my children have nothing protecting them.