OK... so following up on my last post.......
My husband overseas is now saying that since we have never lived together and my lease is in my name... he has no obligation to help me. OKAY, hes from tennesee... im from Idaho... we met when we were both enlisted. Now.... When we got married his address was in TN, with the army, and it was never changed after he got married to an Idaho residence.. thats why he is saying that he doesnt have any obligation to me. I know for a fact that his paycheck nearly doubled when he got married... and that is family seperation pay? If there is anyone who knows anythign about how the military would handle something like this. Ive heard stories of this happening to other wives and they somehow got in touch with their spouses units and it was ordered by the commander that the husband help out. Now, I dont know how i would go about that though because hes never left me any info... and his reserve unit is deployed now... so would I be able to get in touch anyways with a commander? SO .. I guess my questions are... what can I do to get him to help out with bills and such here at home. AND, if this were to be taken to court in our divorce case... would I be getting anything out of it.... backpay or something for the extra money he has been getting ONLY because he was married to me? BECAUSE... im begginning to think that the pay raise is the only reason he got married.
My husband overseas is now saying that since we have never lived together and my lease is in my name... he has no obligation to help me. OKAY, hes from tennesee... im from Idaho... we met when we were both enlisted. Now.... When we got married his address was in TN, with the army, and it was never changed after he got married to an Idaho residence.. thats why he is saying that he doesnt have any obligation to me. I know for a fact that his paycheck nearly doubled when he got married... and that is family seperation pay? If there is anyone who knows anythign about how the military would handle something like this. Ive heard stories of this happening to other wives and they somehow got in touch with their spouses units and it was ordered by the commander that the husband help out. Now, I dont know how i would go about that though because hes never left me any info... and his reserve unit is deployed now... so would I be able to get in touch anyways with a commander? SO .. I guess my questions are... what can I do to get him to help out with bills and such here at home. AND, if this were to be taken to court in our divorce case... would I be getting anything out of it.... backpay or something for the extra money he has been getting ONLY because he was married to me? BECAUSE... im begginning to think that the pay raise is the only reason he got married.