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demon6977
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I am asking this as a concerned parent.
My daughter, who is 15, has a friend, who is also 15, who has recently had a baby. I was appalled when my daughter came home to tell me the news of her friend's pregnancy. So, like any concerned parent I started to question her about her friends parents and what they have to say about all this.
Now, because this is from the mouth of a teenager, the details may not all be fact. Long story short.....Her mother is mostly absent, she is currently staying most of the week at her boyfriends house without her children whom she has left in the care of said 15 year old. Meanwhile, this girl who has been largely unattended and unsupervised has gotten herself pregnant, and most recently given birth. According to my daughter, the mother has refused to let the daughter come home with her new baby, but as far as I know is still her legal guardian. I know that the grandmother has been helping out in this aspect, but I don't know how long that will last. As I said, the 15 year old was largely responsible for her younger siblings who are now also with the grandmother due to the continued absence of the mother.
I don't have the means to help this girl, but I feel that she has gotten a bad hand. Her mother should to be held accountable for her disregard of her children, and the consequences of her absence. On the other hand, I don't want the other children to be taken away from an obviously caring grandparent. Is there anything I can do to help this girl? Could we give her any good advise?
My daughter, who is 15, has a friend, who is also 15, who has recently had a baby. I was appalled when my daughter came home to tell me the news of her friend's pregnancy. So, like any concerned parent I started to question her about her friends parents and what they have to say about all this.
Now, because this is from the mouth of a teenager, the details may not all be fact. Long story short.....Her mother is mostly absent, she is currently staying most of the week at her boyfriends house without her children whom she has left in the care of said 15 year old. Meanwhile, this girl who has been largely unattended and unsupervised has gotten herself pregnant, and most recently given birth. According to my daughter, the mother has refused to let the daughter come home with her new baby, but as far as I know is still her legal guardian. I know that the grandmother has been helping out in this aspect, but I don't know how long that will last. As I said, the 15 year old was largely responsible for her younger siblings who are now also with the grandmother due to the continued absence of the mother.
I don't have the means to help this girl, but I feel that she has gotten a bad hand. Her mother should to be held accountable for her disregard of her children, and the consequences of her absence. On the other hand, I don't want the other children to be taken away from an obviously caring grandparent. Is there anything I can do to help this girl? Could we give her any good advise?