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    NCP Arrested on drug charges

    My daughters father was arrested a week ago. This is his first offense. He was charges with possession of cocaine, possession of marijuana, and drug paraphenila. His bond was set at 25,500. He was bonded out. Our daughter is 3, he has been consistent with his standard visitation for about 8...
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    Our child, not at his best interest.

    I had a previous post about my childs father taking her for 2 weeks that no one was able to answer for me. But now I just have some concerning issues. I'm really not sure if I have a question. I just need to know what kind of options I have if any. My ex has had our 2 year old for almost 2 weeks...
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    What right?

    On Feb. 28th my ex received standard visitation of our 2 year old. The order that my attorney gave me from his lawyer did not include a visitaion schedule. My attorney provided me with one from our county though. The schedule for standard visitation states summer visits are from June 1st @ 6pm...
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    contempt, warrant=back support

    I belive it is an arrest warrant not bench. It wasn't the amount that got him the warrant, necessarily, it was he was placed on probation for 13 months to pay back the support and he did not. He also didn't show. My attorney told me the same about the time frame being how the police make take it...
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    contempt, warrant=back support

    Hmm considering that been taken care of. I know it would not be a priority to the police to pick a man up who has a warrant for $1500 in back support. So I was wondering if ANY WHO HAD BEEN IN THIS SITUATION knew. Not someone to tell me information I have been smart enough to handle on my own.
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    contempt, warrant=back support

    I was wonder has anyone ever been in my same situation? If so, what was the time frame in which everything took place to being resolved? I filed a contempt citation on my ex in Oct 05 for not paying support he was approx $2000 behind. We went to court March 05, at that time he pleaded gulity...
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    adoption

    I have a 15 month old and the father has not been totally involved. He comes around when he wants to and I had to have the CS garnished in order to get it. I am planning on getting married to my boyfriend soon and I was wondering if we would have to be married a certain amount of time before he...
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    Consequences for non payment

    Kepping you posted Another Follow up. March 17th we wento court for the back owed support and to modify the current support because I can no longer get daycare assistance through DHS. They chaged his support to $424 a month and he brought a check for $500 because he owen $1900 now. He is to...
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    Consequences for non payment

    For another follow up, after taking all the needed info to CSE, just 2 weeks later they are finally starting the wage assingnment. I did have info that most people don't have like...the address from which he is paid from. I will not have to worry about him getting behind again unless he changes...
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    Restricting Visitation

    As far as paying his support he will take that up with a judge 11-1. I am pursuing that persistantly, I have filed a contempt citation. My child is only 8 months old and he has only seen her 12 times. The reason I am asking is because I am the one taking her to his grandmothers house (that is...
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    Restricting Visitation

    I am wondering how long would a NCP have to NOT excersise his visitation before the visitation could be restricted?
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    Consequences for non payment

    I started this thread questioning what is the consequence for non payment of child support. I am posting this as a follow up. I have filed a contempt citation, with him owing $1401.61. He does have a hearing 11/1. Depending on his plea he will have a court date set for 11/7. He has since fired...
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    Consequences for non payment

    Yes I do work full time. I have a good job, thats pays well. I did understand that with sole custody I would be accepting a huge financial responsibility. Thats the thing, I now have to do with out, so that my daughter doesn't have to. I am not whinning about that part. I am the type that will...
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    Consequences for non payment

    Thanks for your input gearhart7. You stated the facts. I just found out that in Ok CSE will pull your license, if you are behind, and there is not a set amount. I am waiting on a decree to be signed because he had an issue with it. So after it is signed I can get my $600 the day after if I want...
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    Consequences for non payment

    Thats exactly what I was asking for. Thank you. I am in Oklahoma and I have heard that they will yank your license. So I appreciate your feedback, Duranie. He will not just up and leave his job, he will always keep a job and at this point I don't see him running off. I keep very close contact...
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