cbg, I wasn't chastising you. When I posted in this thread that this was a duplicate, there were already several replies in the other thread & I thought it best to keep all replies there. I was just noting this was a duplicate so we weren't get more replies here also. (best to keep all...
My desk top computer has Win. XP & I can do a google search just fine. I have a card program on it that works just fine. I just can't get into some web sites that require name/PW.
Since you cannot afford a lawyer - definitely when you go to court, plead not guilty & ask for a public defender (a PD is a lawyer). You can then discuss your options with your PD.
It sounds like this should be over since the police were not called. However; if your former employer is called for a reference by a prospective employer, they can give the reason for your termination. Your name might also be put in a retail theft data base.
You do need to pay back what...
You need a lawyer. When you go to court, plead not guilty & ask for a public defender if you cannot afford to hire a lawyer. Discuss your options with your lawyer/public defender.
Has she left you alone (has it stopped) after/since HR was contacted? HR doesn't have to tell you what action they might have taken against her. The important thing is that it stops.
After the baby is born, the presumed Father would need a DNA test to establish rights & paternity. He could then also be required to pay child support.