- Jurisdiction
- California
Court orders we each have summer vacation (couple weeks) and we are to notify each other by a certain date. However our child is enrolled in (current) program and summer program that does not give enough of a gap for a vacation that long, but the father refuse to respect that. (full custody to mother) Orders also state that if a conflict arises then mother's preferences shall hold on even years. No set time/date are given.
I offered the alternate of either waiting to have it until the child is of school age to make it fair for the both of us, especially our child, or break up the 2 weeks that won't interfere with the program times. He said "your program is not important when he should be spending time with his father" (he has 3 visitations per week, where he has none except for holidays when child is in grade school)
He refused, and continue to demand me of what to do and that I give child to him for when he wants the child without consultation or agreement.
What is suggested that I do next, as I take his education seriously and he refused the alternates? I do plan on calling to make an appointment for mediation next week.
I offered the alternate of either waiting to have it until the child is of school age to make it fair for the both of us, especially our child, or break up the 2 weeks that won't interfere with the program times. He said "your program is not important when he should be spending time with his father" (he has 3 visitations per week, where he has none except for holidays when child is in grade school)
He refused, and continue to demand me of what to do and that I give child to him for when he wants the child without consultation or agreement.
What is suggested that I do next, as I take his education seriously and he refused the alternates? I do plan on calling to make an appointment for mediation next week.