My exgirlfriend has custody of our 4 year old daughter. She lives married with her husband in Hawaii. I left Hawaii to pursue college and I have always strived to maintain a quality relationship with my daughter. I forfeited my rights to a preternity test because I want her as my daughter no matter what. At the same time in court I was entitled "reasonable visitation rights", and I was to always be furnished current phone numbers, addresses, and health records. My exgirlfriend has avoided my phone calls for 3-1/2 years. All correspondence has to go through my daughter's grandparents and they do not like me. She has refused to offer phone numbers, addresses, and health records. I have always paid child support and have asked to pay more. I've had scheduled visits with my daughter and have been stood up alone on multiple occasions. I have called my exgirlfriend over 50 times in past 4 years and have not been answered.
My exgirlfriend told her parents to tell me she does not read my xmas cards to my daughter because I sign them with "dad", that my daughter can not have contact with me because she does not know me and I would confuse and traumatise her. My daughter does not know me because they have not let me spend time with her during our scheduled visits and they do not let me call her. Last night after desperatly begging to wish my daughter a merry xmas, I was told to leave a message and they will play the voicemail for my daughter.
Since my daughter was 6 months old my exgirlfriends family has said to be patient and I will have a relationship with my daughter. They have told me that they will gradually build my relationship with my daughter and they have done nothing but play me. I believe that they are trying to get me to wait until my daughter is old enough to brainwash her that I am a bad person. Please advise and let me know what I can do and what I am entitled to. Thank You.
My exgirlfriend told her parents to tell me she does not read my xmas cards to my daughter because I sign them with "dad", that my daughter can not have contact with me because she does not know me and I would confuse and traumatise her. My daughter does not know me because they have not let me spend time with her during our scheduled visits and they do not let me call her. Last night after desperatly begging to wish my daughter a merry xmas, I was told to leave a message and they will play the voicemail for my daughter.
Since my daughter was 6 months old my exgirlfriends family has said to be patient and I will have a relationship with my daughter. They have told me that they will gradually build my relationship with my daughter and they have done nothing but play me. I believe that they are trying to get me to wait until my daughter is old enough to brainwash her that I am a bad person. Please advise and let me know what I can do and what I am entitled to. Thank You.