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I am a stepdad with 2 stepchildren and one biological. My stepkids are on my medical benefits which are great. It took me a lot of work to get that done. My wife had went to court about 2 months ago and the judge saw through her ex husbands lies. The judge who is a female was real stern with him while being respectful to my wife. He was extremely disrespectful by answering the judge by just saying yes or uh huh. Than after the case was over his girlfriend and him stormed out of the courtroom. The judge ordered that he pays 275 a week as per the divorce decree. Also with benefits we pay the first 250 deductible than its 70-30 him. He paid a one time $60.00 check to the child support probation officer. Than after that he told the child support officer that hes not paying outright. He filed a motion to lower the child support and he wants us to pay the $250 deductible than be 50-50. So when we went to file the child support order his girlfriend wrote a note about his character. So this time I decided to write a letter it was short and to the point and was in no way taking shots at anyone. With that my wife responded back saying that she doesn't know where to start with the lies and all she wants is for him to do the right thing for his children and pay child support and for it to be over. Than the final response we recieved was a nasty disgusting letter of lies from his mom bashing myself and my wife. The girlfriend also did the same but there was nothing from him. The court date of his motion is friday. She also has an enforcement hearing next month. His mom went on about how we spend r money and that we have a van a big screen tv etc.. BUT her grandkids are very well taken care of by ME. I been around for about 9 years. His visiting hours are supposed to be from 4pm friday to sunday. He shows up anytime he feels like it. My wife does everything the right way while I want to bust his chops in every way legally possible. From the information I provided can I get opinions,comments or ideas from anyone. Thanks for you're time.
Chris
I am a stepdad with 2 stepchildren and one biological. My stepkids are on my medical benefits which are great. It took me a lot of work to get that done. My wife had went to court about 2 months ago and the judge saw through her ex husbands lies. The judge who is a female was real stern with him while being respectful to my wife. He was extremely disrespectful by answering the judge by just saying yes or uh huh. Than after the case was over his girlfriend and him stormed out of the courtroom. The judge ordered that he pays 275 a week as per the divorce decree. Also with benefits we pay the first 250 deductible than its 70-30 him. He paid a one time $60.00 check to the child support probation officer. Than after that he told the child support officer that hes not paying outright. He filed a motion to lower the child support and he wants us to pay the $250 deductible than be 50-50. So when we went to file the child support order his girlfriend wrote a note about his character. So this time I decided to write a letter it was short and to the point and was in no way taking shots at anyone. With that my wife responded back saying that she doesn't know where to start with the lies and all she wants is for him to do the right thing for his children and pay child support and for it to be over. Than the final response we recieved was a nasty disgusting letter of lies from his mom bashing myself and my wife. The girlfriend also did the same but there was nothing from him. The court date of his motion is friday. She also has an enforcement hearing next month. His mom went on about how we spend r money and that we have a van a big screen tv etc.. BUT her grandkids are very well taken care of by ME. I been around for about 9 years. His visiting hours are supposed to be from 4pm friday to sunday. He shows up anytime he feels like it. My wife does everything the right way while I want to bust his chops in every way legally possible. From the information I provided can I get opinions,comments or ideas from anyone. Thanks for you're time.
Chris