Thank you for adding me.
I have some concerns of a situation that my husband and I are dealing with.
O.k., for starters he's been paying $200 a month to his little boys mother. We have no court order telling him to pay it but he's been doing that since the begining. But sometimes it's hard to pay that much, but she calls and bothers me about the money constatly and we also have a daughter to care for. Before we met he wasn't writing checks to her, just giving cash. Can he be made to backpay even if there's no proof the child is actually his and what can I do about her constant phone calls about money? We're doing what we can. But she uses the kid against him. He thinks if he doesn't agree to whatever she says he won't get to see the child. The situation is really stressful and I just need some advice on what we should do. I don't know if the law is different but they live in Alabama. Any input you can give will be greatly appreciated.
Thanks,
Angel
I have some concerns of a situation that my husband and I are dealing with.
O.k., for starters he's been paying $200 a month to his little boys mother. We have no court order telling him to pay it but he's been doing that since the begining. But sometimes it's hard to pay that much, but she calls and bothers me about the money constatly and we also have a daughter to care for. Before we met he wasn't writing checks to her, just giving cash. Can he be made to backpay even if there's no proof the child is actually his and what can I do about her constant phone calls about money? We're doing what we can. But she uses the kid against him. He thinks if he doesn't agree to whatever she says he won't get to see the child. The situation is really stressful and I just need some advice on what we should do. I don't know if the law is different but they live in Alabama. Any input you can give will be greatly appreciated.
Thanks,
Angel