I a son who is now 3 years and 5 months of age. I came to know about him just after his 3rd birthday (December 2013) through his grandmother.
My ex-girlfriend got pregnant and just disappeared without my knowledge And with the assistance of her mother. While a way, she met an other man she got married with and gave him the paternity of my son. And later on she gave birth a baby-girl.
Furthermore, when I asked the reason why, I got:
1. Grand mother: She was afraid that I take the boy along with me after completion of my master degree. She wanted to live with her first and unique grandson.
2. Ex-girlfriend: She was worried in my concern in the case if I negated the fact. And being student at that time, she said that she wanted to avoid a psychological break for both of us.
In January, I had the chance to spend 10 days with my son and his grandmother, and realised that he was not receiving necessary care such as healthcare, need of education, hygienic and safe environment.
I have been trying to convince both
my son's grandmother and mother to let me take care of my son and that it's my right and responsibility to provide necessary care for my son.
The grandmother is willing and has tried to convince her daughter, but my ex-girlfriend is still holding on the truth about my son eventhough her husband knows that he is not the biological father. She said that she is afraid to loose both her daughter and husband in one side, and her son the other side.
How and what should I do to get custody of my son?
My ex-girlfriend got pregnant and just disappeared without my knowledge And with the assistance of her mother. While a way, she met an other man she got married with and gave him the paternity of my son. And later on she gave birth a baby-girl.
Furthermore, when I asked the reason why, I got:
1. Grand mother: She was afraid that I take the boy along with me after completion of my master degree. She wanted to live with her first and unique grandson.
2. Ex-girlfriend: She was worried in my concern in the case if I negated the fact. And being student at that time, she said that she wanted to avoid a psychological break for both of us.
In January, I had the chance to spend 10 days with my son and his grandmother, and realised that he was not receiving necessary care such as healthcare, need of education, hygienic and safe environment.
I have been trying to convince both
my son's grandmother and mother to let me take care of my son and that it's my right and responsibility to provide necessary care for my son.
The grandmother is willing and has tried to convince her daughter, but my ex-girlfriend is still holding on the truth about my son eventhough her husband knows that he is not the biological father. She said that she is afraid to loose both her daughter and husband in one side, and her son the other side.
How and what should I do to get custody of my son?