My exhusband put a morality clause in our divorce decree. We were divorced 2 1/2 years ago, and this clause had no time limit or a way to remove it. My boyfriend and I have decided to get married in the next year, and in the meantime want to move in together. I filed a motion to have this removed - I've spent over $2,000 so far. Long story short, the court will not remove it. Our moving in together will not be harmful to my child who I have shared custody of, as a matter of fact it will be beneficial to him since we will be able to move out of a bad part of town and into a bigger place where he will have his own room. My son and my boyfriend are very close and he takes very good care of us. No criminal backgrounds or anything like that.. Just someone enforcing their morality on us. It is not illegal in the state of Kansas for two people to live together, with our without children, so how do I fight this? And exactly how enforceable is this? We were so confident that there was no way that they could tell us that we couldn't live together that we have already signed a lease. So now, I'm either stuck with an apartment that I can't afford or some sort of legal consequence. I need help!!