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zolat1
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- Jurisdiction
- Arizona
My (ex) husband and I were just divorced on Monday the 23rd of May. We pretty much agreed on most everything except alimony but I caved a bit just to get things done in a timely manner. Anyway, 4 days later, he decides to drop a bombshell on us (our daughter and myself, together) by inviting us to breakfast and just outside proceeds to tell us that "as you have probably have guessed, I am seeing someone." OK, why are you telling us this, in front of our daughter??? He proceeds to say that he is already living with her and that when visitation starts that not only will our daughter not have her own room like previously planned and discussed but that she will be sharing a room with another 13 year old girl (his girlfriend's daughter). I asked our daughter to go get in the vehicle and proceeded to tell him that this was not the time or the place to drop this on us and it was too soon for her to have to deal with. My point is that she has enough to process with the divorce less than a week ago but now he wants her to process sharing a room with another 13 year old teenaged girl. Too soon. It is now summer and the agreed upon time was under the pretense that he was getting a place for her to have space of her own (since we just moved to separate places at the beginning of the month). Otherwise, I would have put provisions for her to be able to prepare and assimilate to that type of situation. I just think it should have been brought up to me first before dropping it on her like that in public and even before her first visitation started. Is there some injunction or something that I could do since we just had this signed by the judge 4 days ago? I know that is a lot of information but even our daughter says she isn't ready for that yet, psychologically-emotionally.