In NC, can a woman force a man to pay for an abortion? My boyfriend's ex-girlfriend says she is pregnant with HIS child, but we know without a doubt that she cheated on him during the 6/7 weeks they were together, plus she was with someone right before him, and a couple of guys right after him. Each time he refuses to pay (he does not believe in abortion and has told her he will take full custody of the baby should a DNA test prove it is his), she comes up with some crazy reason why she has to have the abortion, and why he has to pay for it. She has said that she has cancer and will die if she doesn't have an abortion. Now she says she has MRSA and will die without an abortion (easily treatable even during a pregnancy). She refuses to provide him with any type of proof that she is even truly pregnant, other than to offer to give him an ultrasound picture "once it has been developed" (they are printed out at the time of the ultrasound). She threatens to go to his parents, and he is worried that she will try to physically hurt them. We just don't know how to handle the situation anymore.