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    Modifying custody. Need advice or input

    I want to modify my previous order to obtain full primary. I have two kids, one with autism to my ex. We were never married. I left him about 5-6 yrs ago now. He was VERY abusive and I saved up and got out of there. I had my own place w/ my sister and was taking care of the kids no problem. He...
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    Travel and modifying the order

    No. And wow no one is getting hostile. We always move xmas to another day when she is with us. Doesn't matter the day. The only problem is affording to get her there and back. That's it. I have 4 kids And what I meant is that I think its total BS for a parent to leave and then demand we pay. She...
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    Travel and modifying the order

    He is the one that put in his stip that she could have every xmas. This isn't about the child being here or there for the holiday. We are not keeping the child from her mother. Its about who is paying. You cant just move away randomly and say guess what you have to come up with all this money now.
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    Travel and modifying the order

    I never said that the kid cant go. The only problem we run into is who's paying. She tried to take the child with her to another state without filing the proper relocation with court. She told him they were going for a year for her husband to attend school and wanted him to agree to it. It ended...
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    Travel and modifying the order

    The temporary order stated that she could have her for xmas if SHE takes care of the travel. So that's what we were going by. She now all the sudden doesn't want to pay. She didn't pay to get her back home. And we paid half to get the child there because she couldn't afford it. If she cant...
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    Travel and modifying the order

    No it does not. There's not really extra in it. I feel like our lawyer did that on purpose so we would have to go back. The lawyer told us NOT to put transportation in it bcuz it would fall on the non custodial to pay it.
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    switching schools

    Oh no don't get me wrong. They would discuss it. Its just I think she would oppose it because she would do that. We can't live in an apartment forever.
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    Travel and modifying the order

    My husband. He is very busy during the day at work, so I help with a lot of the legal issues.
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    switching schools

    Father is custodial, I am his wife
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    Travel and modifying the order

    I cannot afford to go back to court to Modify the current order. There's nothing in my order that states who pays for transportation. I asked my lawyer if I could just demand a round trip itinerary for the child before the child leaves (and I would help the cost) for the visitation and lawyer...
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    Transportation and Flight costs

    Yeah. Custodial has no problem helping. It's the lying and the sneaky behavior that's the problem of the non custodial and not be reasonable. Noncust likes to do anything out of spite since they lost custody. Noncustodial will say they need help to get child to them since they have to pay child...
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    Transportation and Flight costs

    There is nothing on transportation. The child has to fly. There is no meeting or anything. Custodial parent wants to modify the order since the non custodial doesn't want to help get the child home. Custodial helped the non custodial get child to them but does not want to help child get back...
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    Transportation and Flight costs

    Does anyone have a situation where the non custodial parent that moved takes care of travel expenses? It baffles my mind that a parent decides to leave the state then tells the custodial parent that they now have to pay for plane tickets to get them there and back to visit. Now this non...
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    Child's Mother Moving Out of State

    You would have to talk to your lawyer. I don't know about Rhode Island but usually she MUST file a petition for relocation. She cannot just leave even if there is an order or not. You have to file for custody if there is no order in place. Out of states issues are very hard and you have to get a...
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    switching schools

    I have so many questions about this situation. Its ridiculous. I'm told one thing by this lawyer another by another lawyer. And the father doesn't want to do anything wrong on his end since he had done everything right so far.
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