I caught my wife cheating in Oct. '08. I forgave her but I'm sure she is still in contact with the guy she cheated with. We are supposed to start counseling soon and don't know if things will work out. She said she would walk away from the marriage and not 'screw' me but I am worried that no matter what she says I will get the short end of the stick. I do not think I have done anything wrong. I am only guilty of loving her unconditionally, and I still do. I am just worried about divorce and the worst possible outcome, besides being alone. Thanks in advance