when i was deployed to iraq in march 2003 my wife(now ex) cheated on me and move away and didnt tell me nothing. she took all my money out the bank and she move to home town where they have an air force base and she went complaing to them about how i close the bank account in oct. well she recievied an Army Emegency Relief loan under my name. well under AER website it says the spouses need an power of attorney. she never had one. well when i returned i got a letter saying a was past due on my payment. i was mad cuz i didn't know anything about it, i went to jag but they were no help, and so they took out the money out of my check without my consent. i was mad but i did'nt do anything about it. well its been a yr a later can i do anything about it please help