Hello, I live in St. Louis,MO and my wife and I are having marital problems. She said she wants a divorce and I need to know what are my options are. The first thing that came to my mind was to take all my money out of the account because I am the only one that works and she refused to go back to work. She has purposely overdrawn the account after I have told her not to. She said she is fed up with me, however, that does not mean make us broke when you get ready because you want some clothes. Can I take my money out of the account without consequences? Can she get spousal support based on what I stated? Let me go on further that she had an emotional affair with another man on the internet and admitted to it. I forgave her but she has accused me of have an sexual affair with another woman in which I have not. What are my options at this point?