My x filed for joint custody of our 4 month old the 21st, i was served the 22nd. I went and talked to my attorney and he really pushed for me to agree to joint, but thats what I have been trying to do the past 4 months without us having to go to court and have been unsuccsesful with coperation on his part. I was not keeping her from him, he was fully aware that he could come see her or come get her when he wanted, all he had to do was pick up the phone. I don't understand if he knew that why he went and filed. The problem is that our daughter is 4 months old and he has only seen her 8 times, and thats including the day she was born. He has chose to not be in her life on a consistent basis. To top it off he was willingly giving me child support and he has not stopped as of this month. I have kept a journal of the times he has spent with her and for how long, as well as phone calls made on my behalf reaching out to him to spend more time with her. So with that being said, I, in return filed for sole custody with visitation. I feel as this is what is best for our daughter right now until he can prove himself to be a good father and to support her. I am just worried that a judge is really going to push joint, so I want to know my chances of being awarded sole custody?