I am in the military and got divorced to my ex 3 years ago at that time I was stationed in Augusta Ga which is 4 hours away. I have recently been reassigned to SC near Myrtle Beach which is 8 hrs away My divorce decree says me and my ex are suppose to meet half way to get my child. She refuses to do stating she doesn't have any money. I pay her 80$ more than what court said to pay for child support and have never missed a payment to her. and on top of all that she doesn't have a job and stays with her boyfriend and I dont know what he does. I am not saying she is a bad parent or anything but she hasn't really had a job since our divorce. She has been moving in and out of peoples homes since we divorced. I have even rented one of my houses out to her and she still couldn't keep up with bills. Is there a way I can try and get custody being that my living situation is more stable. Me and my current wife both have jobs.