Watchmefly
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- Arizona
I am a single mother of a middle school student.
I believe this is a situation of a teacher taking advantage of their position among other things and I'm not certain how to handle.
My child's teacher made advances to me and he guaranteed that he was getting divorced and living as if separated. He became intertwined in my life, family and my child and other students became involved to know we were in a relationship. We'd been together for ten months until I found out very recently that he is not getting divorced. He'd been lying to me and everyone else.
Needless to say he hurt a lot of people.
My concerns are that he took advantage of his position. Exploited me, my child and other students.
He had taken me to his classroom alone and there were physical relations which I was not in the right frame of mind to think about at the time and caught of guard. I have concerns that he may have changed my child's grades too. There are many things he did unethically I believe as I'm finding out more truth.
Also, this is not the first time he'd taken advantage of his position. He was in a different school district, was married to a different women and had affair with his student teacher. They had 2 children together.
He has a very diabolical past which was a while ago and I've come to learn details as I discovered recently that he's been lying leading a double life from his current wife.
I am strongly concerned about how it's going to affect my child as they do not know yet, friends/students, my family, other single mothers or women and children being taken advantage of in the future. This teacher is a liability starting in a new school district where him and his wife will be teaching together. That was the plan as far as I know.
I have no idea on how to proceed and I have proof of everything over past ten months.
I can use advice as this is still fresh my finding out and I need clear guidance.
I am clear in my thought that he should not be teaching.
Thank you.
I believe this is a situation of a teacher taking advantage of their position among other things and I'm not certain how to handle.
My child's teacher made advances to me and he guaranteed that he was getting divorced and living as if separated. He became intertwined in my life, family and my child and other students became involved to know we were in a relationship. We'd been together for ten months until I found out very recently that he is not getting divorced. He'd been lying to me and everyone else.
Needless to say he hurt a lot of people.
My concerns are that he took advantage of his position. Exploited me, my child and other students.
He had taken me to his classroom alone and there were physical relations which I was not in the right frame of mind to think about at the time and caught of guard. I have concerns that he may have changed my child's grades too. There are many things he did unethically I believe as I'm finding out more truth.
Also, this is not the first time he'd taken advantage of his position. He was in a different school district, was married to a different women and had affair with his student teacher. They had 2 children together.
He has a very diabolical past which was a while ago and I've come to learn details as I discovered recently that he's been lying leading a double life from his current wife.
I am strongly concerned about how it's going to affect my child as they do not know yet, friends/students, my family, other single mothers or women and children being taken advantage of in the future. This teacher is a liability starting in a new school district where him and his wife will be teaching together. That was the plan as far as I know.
I have no idea on how to proceed and I have proof of everything over past ten months.
I can use advice as this is still fresh my finding out and I need clear guidance.
I am clear in my thought that he should not be teaching.
Thank you.