stepdaughter adoption

[jamesmo]

What would it take for me to adopt my 14 year old stepdaughter (in Oklahoma county, Oklahoma) that wants to take my name, but her father is against it? Can it be done without him signing off on this?

 

[KatDini]

Short answer: No.

Want a better answer, give more details.

 

[shrinkmaster]

Without the consent of Bio Dad this isn't really going to happen read here http://www.parentnook.com/step-parent-adoptions/ There could be things you and Bio Mom could try like forgiving Bio Dad of any arrears he may have in support.

 

[KatDini]

Without the consent of Bio Dad this isn't really going to happen read here http://www.parentnook.com/step-parent-adoptions/ There could be things you and Bio Mom could try like forgiving Bio Dad of any arrears he may have in support.

There are many states that won't allow that.

 

[shrinkmaster]

I realize conditions and local laws apply I was being generic