kimmicat78
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I have been investigated in reference to the type of relationship that me and my ex-boss had.
First of all my job is like being at high school, if anyone sees you talking to anyone else they automatically assume you are sleeping together. Rumors fly around all the time about who is doing who and what not. It's really is stupid!
Anyways to get to the point; at the time my boss was still my boss there were rumors going around that we were "sleeping" together. Which all stemmed from a previous employee who had a thing for our boss and basically asked him to have a sexual relationship with him; which he states he refused. Well this girl knew that me and my boss were friends and that we did conversate alot and she seemed to single me out for that simple reason.
So the investagation happened and I was called into HR and asked a serious of personal questions ranging from has he ever been inappropriate with me to are we sleeping with each other. All in all the investigation turned up that there was nothing going on; and that girl was CRAZY. :no:
But it has been an ongoing issue. Me and my ex-boss no longer talk unless we really have to in regards to work. He does still work with me but is no longer my "boss"; I am currently under a different manager.
I feel like I am being singled out because there are so many other rumors that fly around this place about other girls that have had "relationships" with him; but nothing is ever done to them.
I am so stressed out; I have trouble sleeping and eating.and I am losing weight. The stress has gotten so bad that my relationships at home are suffering. I feel like I am constantly being watched and I feel like my job is suffereing because of it.
I do not know what to do. I feel like I have been backed into a corner and there is no where for me to go. I really need this job because I am a single mother and this supports me and my daughter.
Is there any advice that I can get as to what actions I need to take in regards to this issue?
First of all my job is like being at high school, if anyone sees you talking to anyone else they automatically assume you are sleeping together. Rumors fly around all the time about who is doing who and what not. It's really is stupid!
Anyways to get to the point; at the time my boss was still my boss there were rumors going around that we were "sleeping" together. Which all stemmed from a previous employee who had a thing for our boss and basically asked him to have a sexual relationship with him; which he states he refused. Well this girl knew that me and my boss were friends and that we did conversate alot and she seemed to single me out for that simple reason.
So the investagation happened and I was called into HR and asked a serious of personal questions ranging from has he ever been inappropriate with me to are we sleeping with each other. All in all the investigation turned up that there was nothing going on; and that girl was CRAZY. :no:
But it has been an ongoing issue. Me and my ex-boss no longer talk unless we really have to in regards to work. He does still work with me but is no longer my "boss"; I am currently under a different manager.
I feel like I am being singled out because there are so many other rumors that fly around this place about other girls that have had "relationships" with him; but nothing is ever done to them.
I am so stressed out; I have trouble sleeping and eating.and I am losing weight. The stress has gotten so bad that my relationships at home are suffering. I feel like I am constantly being watched and I feel like my job is suffereing because of it.
I do not know what to do. I feel like I have been backed into a corner and there is no where for me to go. I really need this job because I am a single mother and this supports me and my daughter.
Is there any advice that I can get as to what actions I need to take in regards to this issue?
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