Female and divorced 10 years ago. At the time my ex had a retirement plan thru his workplace but I was not given any of that money and was told by my attorney that I could not get any of it. I was married for 26 years. Is there any way I can go back and get my share of the (value at that time) of the retirement? After being divorced 4 years I did finally get $100 per month alimony. Thanks in advance!!