MJ1958
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My uncle passed away several years ago, taking his own life. At the time, he was married to a horrible woman who he found out was cheating on him with another woman. She was leaving him for this woman, who she is now legally married to. She had 1 child with him, while his previous wife had 3. She refuses to share the ashes with them, saying that she "paid" for them and she has the right to decide. They've asked and pointed out that their father's wishes would've been for all of his children to have some of his remains. She, however, doesn't care. Our family knows she didn't love him and feel that she contributed to his death as he committed it the day she was moving her things out. Yes, I know that they were married and that's the law. Well it's crap. That someone that so obviously didn't care for him has any right over his remains at all. Is there anything we can do? This is a law that needs to be changed, to honor the people that deserve the rights.