starlight628
New Member
I am dating a guy (who I met in 2001), found out he was getting a divorce, but his wife is pregnant. I know it's a morally ridiculous situation to be in but whatever. His "wife" who is 5 months pregnant has harrassed me over the phone. She called my mom about 2 months ago at work like 8 or 9 times asking for me. She has also called most of boyfriend's friends 4 or 5 in the morning looking for me. In the begginning of January she showed up to my house ( have no idea how she found me), ringing the doorbell 10 times. She harrassed me, yelling in the street, so I flagged down a cop, explained to him the situation. The cop sent her home and told me that if she ever came back he would arrest her. A week ago me and boyfriend were on our way to my parents house to drop off my daughter. Crazy "wife" was stalking us. She followed him to the gas station (he left to put gas in my car etc etc) and followed him back to my house. She left their 3 yr old son in a running car to jump in my car and take my keys out of my car. She did nothing to protect her belly from the impact of when she jumped in. Me and boyfriend tried to pull her out and she wouldn't budge. She got out and punched me and started to pull my hair.
I couldn't do anything to defend myself because she was pulling my head down and I couldn't reach her to push her off me. She pulled so hard she yanked my hair leaving a perfect bald spot on my head. She finally ran to my boyfriend (he was getting in her car to get their son away from her), again she jumped in his car while he was driving away hitting her belly on the window. The police didn't arrest anyone basically if she has a miscarriage because of all of this we're getting charged with a felony. Is there anything I can do? She drove an hour from where she lives to come to my house and do this. In my opinion she endangered the lives of both of her kid and unborn child. There was no secret about my involvement with the guy. She had asked for a divorced since may of last year. I think she has bipolar or some type of mental problem if she acts like this unexpectedly. The last time me and her spoke everything was calm. I fear her now that she can come here whenever she feels like it and hurt me my daughter her own kids or my boyfriend.
I couldn't do anything to defend myself because she was pulling my head down and I couldn't reach her to push her off me. She pulled so hard she yanked my hair leaving a perfect bald spot on my head. She finally ran to my boyfriend (he was getting in her car to get their son away from her), again she jumped in his car while he was driving away hitting her belly on the window. The police didn't arrest anyone basically if she has a miscarriage because of all of this we're getting charged with a felony. Is there anything I can do? She drove an hour from where she lives to come to my house and do this. In my opinion she endangered the lives of both of her kid and unborn child. There was no secret about my involvement with the guy. She had asked for a divorced since may of last year. I think she has bipolar or some type of mental problem if she acts like this unexpectedly. The last time me and her spoke everything was calm. I fear her now that she can come here whenever she feels like it and hurt me my daughter her own kids or my boyfriend.
