No--the opposite. My ex, who has a past with domestic violence, is fighting about wanting more parenting time due to me being in a serious relationship. The relationship started 9 months into the middle of an 18 month divorce.( no infidelity). The GAL fears "father will be alienated" with my new relationship whereas I feel that of course he feels this way, who wouldn't, but that shouldn't mean he gets the children more than the previous arrangement that this same GAL has always recommended. I was looking for a reputable information that shows that these feelings of the father are normal and common, not anything unique or rare. I just want to move on. I shouldnt lose parenting time because I am happy in a new relationship.