Reputable Information about Post Divorce Relationships

Depends on the man and his maturity.

 

Why?

Does your ex-wife have a new boyfriend? Do your children like him? Is he a nice guy with no drug addiction, no alcoholism, no abuse, makes a good living? If yes to all those questions, just suck it up. That's how life works. Divorced people move on and get into new relationships.

You can google that stuff but it isn't going to change anything.

“The Moving Finger writes; and, having writ,
Moves on: nor all thy Piety nor Wit
Shall lure it back to cancel half a Line,
Nor all thy Tears wash out a Word of it.”
― Omar Khayyám

 

Visit a local therapist to discuss your specific issues. I don't really see this as a legal/law issue

 

The GAL represents the interests of your children (or should).

A lawyer is the one that represents YOUR interests. I suggest you talk to one, especially if your ex has already filed a petition with the court.

 

If you were not divorced, then legally, yes, you were practicing infidelity. I'd suggest parking the boyfriend at the curb until you are divorced and the judge has not only signed the paperwork, but the waiting period is over.

 

Google is your friend. This isn't even a legal question. I suspect you're trying to do something to stop her from having a new relationship around your kids though huh?

 

This doesn't appear to raise any legal issue, so I can only refer you to google or a library.